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The persistence of grief

Two years ago, someone loved by all the people I love passed away. It was a bizarre experience, in the sense that I had never been able to imagine it, … Continue reading

February 7, 2016 · Leave a comment

Suffer little children.

Virginia has made child abuse legal, and pedophiles everywhere are booking plane tickets.

February 5, 2016 · 5 Comments

Laughter Lines

I grew up with Carry on films as a staple of sunday afternoon TV. Bawdy was the word used to describe them, today we might use a whole host of … Continue reading

February 3, 2016 · 2 Comments

The Sunday Sermon; The Numbers Game

It is probably fair to say that I have had more sexual partners than my fellow blogger here. I might be wrong, he happily describes himself as a slut, and … Continue reading

January 31, 2016 · Leave a comment

Dreamscapes and real life dilemmas

I have a vivid dreamscape when I’m stressed. This week it has featured numerous cinematic vignettes, all of them in technicolour,all of them shot in styles appropriate to the narrative; … Continue reading

January 30, 2016 · Leave a comment

Alternate lives

Last night as I drove home from having some fun with mates, Jem and I talked about anonymity and the internet, and the way anonymity can be used to trial … Continue reading

January 28, 2016 · Leave a comment

Time Management.

It’s usual for sites where sex workers advertise to put a disclaimer along the lines of “any money paid is for the time and companionship of the escorts on this … Continue reading

January 27, 2016 · Leave a comment

The cult of the interviewer

As a blog we’ve always taken a keen interest in media practice as well as output, even if we have a low opinion of modern journalism. The latest rant by … Continue reading

January 27, 2016 · Leave a comment

Your call is important to us…

My timeline on Twitter has been alive today with criticisms and comments about this NHS initiative. I know a little bit about therapy, a bit more about CBT, and a … Continue reading

January 25, 2016 · 1 Comment

Is it news?

Apparently the weather is bad in New York and New Jersey. I don’t live in New York,or New Jersey. I love New Jersey, and I’ve always enjoyed New York, but … Continue reading

January 25, 2016 · 3 Comments

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