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Monthly Archives: September, 2013

Swinging, slut shaming, and #banfreebies

You may have noticed the #banfreebies tag on twitter, it has been quite hard to miss if you follow sex workers.It spread from country to country as different people highlighted … Continue reading

September 29, 2013 · 2 Comments

Goblins, Police Academy and harm reduction

In my dim, and far more distant youth than I care to admit a group of us decided to do mushrooms one night. (Obligatory disclaimer, drugs are really really bad, … Continue reading

September 27, 2013 · 2 Comments

Session stars and BDSM

I was inspired to give this old blog post a revamp by a beautifully filthy email and a newspaper article about Chas and Dave -which may be the first and … Continue reading

September 27, 2013 · 1 Comment

Looking for emeralds

(In which Carter revists an old post that offered sage advice to a young man looking for love on  a swingers website, and then went off on one for no … Continue reading

September 24, 2013 · 1 Comment

Media Monday and journalistic principles, part two

SInce the Sunday Sun is published by Trinity Mirror, here’s a blog post I published elsewhere that illustrates that yesterday’s story in the Sunday Sun isn’t a one off. The … Continue reading

September 23, 2013 · 2 Comments

Media Monday and useful legal principles for tabloid journalists

Have  a look at this article in the Sunday Sun. No. not the Sun on Sunday, the disgusting tabloid rag produced by Murdoch to replace the News of The World, … Continue reading

September 23, 2013 · 1 Comment

Girls don’t…

A sort of a review of the week. Carter wrote one of those pieces that make me wonder why everyone isn’t sharing and commenting on it, so honest and perceptive … Continue reading

September 22, 2013 · Leave a comment

Boys don’t….

In which Carter discusses sex in frank terms which may shock anyone who doesn’t know what it is we do here. We grow used to the idea, as young men, … Continue reading

September 20, 2013 · 4 Comments

How about no more misogyny,racism and outings?

Originally posted on everyday whorephobia:
Over the past two  days The Sun and its Scottish Sister paper have featured  women on their front page. Yesterday In Scotland they outed a…

September 17, 2013 · Leave a comment

Whats the problem with bum fun?

I have a confession to make, I like anal sex, I like it a lot. I like being on my back, legs clasped around my dominant’s back while I orgasm hugely. … Continue reading

September 16, 2013 · 4 Comments

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