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Monthly Archives: November, 2014

The Sunday Sermon; #ThingsthatarenotMosques.

Ukip failing to recognise Westminster Cathedral this week caused much hilarity and a rather witty Twitter tag. Westminster Cathedral in an unusual Catholic Church and one of my favourite London … Continue reading

November 30, 2014 · Leave a comment

Nick Cohen is a twunt

Sorry, I just couldn’t help myself. When Jem asked me to think of a tagline for this blog, we had a few options. One of the ones I didn’t pitch … Continue reading

November 30, 2014 · 1 Comment

Unable to speak.

Content note for rape, sexual abuse, and graphic personal account of CSA I will confess that until late last night I had never heard of Shia LaBeouf. I saw a … Continue reading

November 29, 2014 · 8 Comments

Black Friday

Every blogger worth their salt is going to be blogging about Plebgate or Ferguson at some stage this weekend. If you aren’t appalled by what happened to Mike Brown in … Continue reading

November 28, 2014 · 4 Comments

Living next door to…

Phil BC has done a pretty convincing review of the Paedophile Next Door here. It’s a strong argument, but not complete. The notion that more people have fantasies or desires … Continue reading

November 27, 2014 · 4 Comments

The Sunday Sermon; A Christian response to transphobia.

Content note for extreme transphobia on the linked to leaflet. Yesterday it was saddening, but not surprising, to hear that terfs were spreading their hate at Reclaim the Night London. … Continue reading

November 23, 2014 · 8 Comments

Decoding St George

The row about Emily Thornberry and the flag draped home of a white van man is emblematic of much that is wrong about politics in England today. The first thing … Continue reading

November 22, 2014 · Leave a comment

Help me doctor, I can’t make love

Jem wrote brilliantly about the fuckwittery that is ‘Make Love, Not Porn’. One of the joys of this blog is that if I provide my perspective on a topic, that’s … Continue reading

November 21, 2014 · Leave a comment

Why I will never make love, not porn.

Recently carter and I went for a drive, we talked about his work issues and I hope I helped him with insights about where he wanted to be. Combined with … Continue reading

November 20, 2014 · 11 Comments

Taking victims out of the picture

This article in the Telegraph outraged many of us who read it. The implication, that the teenage girl might be in some way accountable for the behaviour of older men … Continue reading

November 19, 2014 · 3 Comments

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