This is our truth, tell us yours
We have written quite a few posts about Fifty Shades of Shite. As a Dom and a sub involved in a total power exchange relationship we have a personal interest in how BDSM is represented. We also have a wider concern, partner abuse and violence is endemic in our culture, and abusers will use anything to excuse their behaviour, including. as has already happened FSOG. We also write about real world BDSM, without an inner goddess in site.
However rather than repeating what we have already said, this post is simply listing some of our our previous work. Enjoy may be the wrong word, but it may be useful, especially when vanilla people try to argue that being anti FSOG means being anti BDSM.
My names Carter and I’m a sadist; Sadism is not about being a damaged abuser who needs cured.
My names Jemima and I’m a… and being a sub doesn’t mean I have an execrable inner goddess and zero self awareness
FSOG inspires real world abuse CN for rape, violence against women.