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Monthly Archives: January, 2016

The Sunday Sermon; The Numbers Game

It is probably fair to say that I have had more sexual partners than my fellow blogger here. I might be wrong, he happily describes himself as a slut, and … Continue reading

January 31, 2016 · 1 Comment

Dreamscapes and real life dilemmas

I have a vivid dreamscape when I’m stressed. This week it has featured numerous cinematic vignettes, all of them in technicolour,all of them shot in styles appropriate to the narrative; … Continue reading

January 30, 2016 · Leave a comment

Alternate lives

Last night as I drove home from having some fun with mates, Jem and I talked about anonymity and the internet, and the way anonymity can be used to trial … Continue reading

January 28, 2016 · Leave a comment

Time Management.

It’s usual for sites where sex workers advertise to put a disclaimer along the lines of “any money paid is for the time and companionship of the escorts on this … Continue reading

January 27, 2016 · 2 Comments

The cult of the interviewer

As a blog we’ve always taken a keen interest in media practice as well as output, even if we have a low opinion of modern journalism. The latest rant by … Continue reading

January 27, 2016 · Leave a comment

Your call is important to us…

My timeline on Twitter has been alive today with criticisms and comments about this NHS initiative. I know a little bit about therapy, a bit more about CBT, and a … Continue reading

January 25, 2016 · 1 Comment

Is it news?

Apparently the weather is bad in New York and New Jersey. I don’t live in New York,or New Jersey. I love New Jersey, and I’ve always enjoyed New York, but … Continue reading

January 25, 2016 · 3 Comments

Self awareness and concentricity

I have a favourite story I use to help friends who are struggling with feeling down. It’s a story in part about the limits of help, as opposed to professional … Continue reading

January 23, 2016 · Leave a comment

Where to look

Jem has, after issuing appropriate content warnings, written brilliantly about the death of Poppi Worthington here. Please exercise self care while reading this post too since it discusses the environments … Continue reading

January 20, 2016 · 2 Comments

Remember Poppi.

The death of Poppi Worthington is exceptionally triggering, please exercise self care.Content Notes for child abuse, physical and sexual. Heartbreaking is a word often thrown around when a child dies. … Continue reading

January 19, 2016 · 1 Comment

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