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Hat tip to Catalonia

Yes, yes, I know but Orwell was sufficiently on trend for his time so we can imagine he’d know what a hat tip is. Anyway, Catalonia. What to say? Apparently, … Continue reading

October 28, 2017 · Leave a comment

The solicitors letter scam

Anyone who’s ever done welfare or debt advice work will know the solicitors letter scam. The solicitors letter scam, in short, is where a debt collector uses the name of … Continue reading

October 18, 2017 · 3 Comments

Fake news or bad journalism

Andrew Gilligan has written a piece in the Sunday Times today attacking Mermaids, the wonderful charity that works with families and transgender children. Mermaids have replied here. Mermaids have been … Continue reading

October 8, 2017 · Leave a comment

Rolespace and rolescapes, not roleplay

As a blog, we have always had a consistent rule against roleplay, in the sense of BDSM. Simply put, we’ve always thought BDSM is both too serious, and too requiring … Continue reading

October 6, 2017 · Leave a comment

Fools Gold

What is submission? As Eamon Holmes scrapes the bottom of a barrel I didnt even know existed (and no I am not watching) on channel 5 it is a question … Continue reading

September 21, 2017 · Leave a comment

Action and realities

As some people will know, this blog is a team effort in the same way that a BDSM relationship is, in our world, a team effort. We’re both aware of … Continue reading

July 30, 2017 · Leave a comment


Amongst my peer group at school there was a common trope that said, bluntly, that if you let a man fuck you up the arse you became a woman. By … Continue reading

July 22, 2017 · Leave a comment

The Doctor is now a woman. Here are the things the BBC needs to get right.

So, the tennis (finally) ¬†finished and the announcement has been made. The thirteenth Doctor is to be played by Jodie Whitaker, who, the observant may have spotted, is a woman. … Continue reading

July 16, 2017 · 4 Comments

Broken Walls

Recently Carter wished to take some photographs of me, as we wandered, like two unlonely and very content clouds. Posing for photographs is incredibly submissive for me, the world contracts … Continue reading

July 15, 2017 · Leave a comment

Suffer little children

I went into my local supermarket last night. The till staff were all in football shirts, and rattling buckets for a charity connected with Bradley Lowery. If you’re not from … Continue reading

July 15, 2017 · 1 Comment

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